
I didn't intend to imply that you were saying I was being patronizing, either, Patricia. I was aware that many citizens here have not had any reason, or inclination, to learn about such matters, until they begin researching the background to JA's world. As for the lady, who is also a "gunner's mate", although not at the same time, I'll leave it to her to announce herself if she choses, or not. After all, an officer and a gentleman would not reveal information about a lady until she has indicated otherwise.
I remain,
Jason E.