May I ask to what these questions tend? ;-) In this post and the one below, you have stated a Jane Austen connection. The other two posts you made about marital relatios have been deleted as you did not make a Jane Austen connection in them, and in fact sound suspiciously like you are looking for research. Is this the case? Are you writing a novel of some such? ;-) If so, please check out our Homework Help Policy linked at the top of the board. I know that writing a book is not the same thing as homework, but it is handled in the same manner here at Pemberley.
Thanks! ;-)